Dating a girl in a wheelchair
We are dorky dudes and not the twin brothers of 50 Cent.
Seriously, don’t ever show up to the first date with a black woman like THIS…It might work in the movies and it definitely works if you are Eminem, but it won’t work for you and me.and the story of a girl in a wheelchair who gets a date for her high school prom.For me, the problem with stories like these is that they don't focus on the girl in the wheelchair; they focus on the date.They look like this: I know, you don’t see that in the movies. You insecurities, your past experiences, your self-confidence and your self-image play a role too. I think I don’t have to tell you which choice is the better one. If you wasted your energy arguing with enemies of interracial relationships, you would have no energy to start or to maintain your relationship.I just slapped your biggest fear in your face. In one of my previous articles I answer the question “Do black girls like white men? This one article turned my inbox into a battlefield. The same thoughts that you have, keep them awake at night. What will my friends and family think when I date outside my race? She has those fears and that’s why there is a high chance that she looks for you in places that don’t allow judgement, gossip and hate to enter the room.Lil Wayne and all the other Cash Money Records weirdos don’t show these black women in their music videos. In the end, nobody seems to care that not all black women are strippers with pink hair extensions. I want you to understand that dating a black woman for the first time can be , at least when you know what to do and what not to do. On the one hand, I received emails from black girls who stumbled upon my article and who asked me for tips to attract white guys. There are communities and sites that allow black women and white men to meet, to chat and to fall in love. The detailed case study that I wrote a couple of weeks ago will show you exactly where you have to look for the black beauty of your dreams.Don’t do it. Even if you ignore all the other advice I share with you in this article because you thought that skimming is better than reading, please don’t ignore this one piece of advice.You see a movie in which a black couple acts like your stereotypical black couple.They are loud, they complain and they scream “I tell you what you do. It requires you to love your girlfriend even more whenever someone says something negative. When you show her that you are her safe castle that she can escape to whenever the hate overwhelms her, the hate will make her glow.Every time her hair touches your body you get goosebumps.You can’t stop kissing her voluptuous lips and you want to caress her beautiful dark skin until she falls asleep. As long as you don’t try to act black, you haven’t lost the battle.The thought of dating a black woman for the first time makes you nervous. And no, surprising her with a freestyle rap is not what you should do. Everyone who says the opposite is either lying or has the privilege to not be affected by these fears.“What kind of fears? On the other hand, I received emails from white dudes who told me about Most black women love white men and if you send me another email in which you complain that black girls don’t like white guys, I drive by your house and set your cat on fire. Depending on where you live, some sites are better than others. The last thing that a black woman wants is to date a white or an Asian guy who acts black. You are just a white dude or an Asian dude who has (probably) no swag, no mic smoke and You are just going to make yourself look ridiculous.Or I send you a smiley fact with a link to this article that will take away your fear.A lot of black women like white men. Wearing a baseball cap and starting every sentence with “jo” won’t help you to survive the first date.